In a world where more and more men and women are attracted to the "big and beautiful," someone has to ask the question, when is big just too damn big? There are some that are of the opinion that the bigger the better. But is that really so?
Take for instance, a woman that, in order to get to her vaginal area, you have to get through thirty pounds of stomach, only to realize that now you have to try to swim through an extra hundred pounds of legs to enter her "pleasure kingdom"... is it really worth it? But the time you've reached your destination, you're worn out.
And then, think of a guy who's stomach hangs lower than his dick does... where's the satisfaction in that, unless you're getting him from behind? And that leads me to another question, how do really big people wipe themselves?
Now, I am not skinny myself. As the title of my blogging space is "Big Bois Have Fun Too"... so shit, you know I am a big guy. But, in my opinion, there is such a thing as too big. When your weight inhibits movement and increases risks for heart attack, stroke, and diabetes. Well, most of you would say that any additional or increased weight could cause that... and you don't have to be fat to suffer from those ailments. My point is that if you are so big that your weight causes you to be unable to clean yourself, and you have a lingering odor, then you're at that point where big is just too big.
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I have always been a big girl, ever since the third grade. As an adult, I have weighed 160 lbs, 400 lbs, and everywhere in between. But whatever weight I was at, there were always some men who were attracted to that body type. In the past two years, I have been on a healthy eating program, and have gone from 400 to 260 lbs. Some of the men I dated at 400 lbs. are no longer interested in me, and one got downright angry at me for losing weight. Now, there are some men who treated me like dirt when I was 400 lbs., who are suddenly asking me out. My attitude is, I am the same person, no matter my size, and if you didn't like me two years ago, and treated me badly, why the hell would I give you the time of day now? But the fact remains, that no matter what size you are, there are people who will like you that way. Now, I do have to say that I never got to the point that I was unable to maintain my personal hygiene. I always showered daily, and was always able to wipe my butt, so body odor was not a factor. Smelling bad is not attractive no matter what your size, at least not to anyone I would want to be involved with!
Yes, there are people who are attracted to extremely obese partners. With some, it is a harmless fetish, like being attracted to feet, or big breasts, or extremely muscular people. But with some individuals, it takes on a more disturbing aspect, like in a particular obsession that the media calls "feeding". The "feeder" starts a relationship with a very obese person, usually someone with an uncontrolled eating disorder. They then encourage the overeating, cooking them rich meals, taking them to restaurants, constantly tempting them to eat more and more until the "feedee" is so morbidly obese that they are totally dependent on the "feeder". In some cases, the obese partner becomes so fat that they cannot move and depend on the feeder to wash, dress, and do everything for them. This is where I think the line is drawn between a harmless preference for a certain body type and something that is truly sick. I used to think that people are entitled to do whatever turns them on as long as it doesn't involve children or cruelty to animals, but this type of victimization an exploitation of another's weakness is heinous.
For more on feeding or feederism, here is a selection of links:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fat_fetishism
http://www.naafa.org/documents/policies/feederism.html
http://www.naafa.org/documents/policies/feederism.html
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/rejoicing_feederism/
http://www.dimensionsmagazine.com/Weight_Room/
i agree with you to a point and i also agree with ole girl. there are alot of people with a fetish for big girls or big boys. that is very true but at the same time there is alot of problems with the health issues. we dont want to look at that point but it's true the bigger a person gets the more health risk it is for them. now im not a size four or twelve and i most definitely get my share of the fun but it doesn't hurt that i'm also a 48dd either but i am diabectic, have high blood pressure, and an asmatic. so even though i am not that big it still cause health problems for alot of people especially amonst young blacks.
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